I'm 46 hardworking single man who is looking clubs for near sex and possibly being watched by my primary partner. I dont host so need to plan ahead of time before we do any fun stuff Im trying so hard not to be flaky and Im not a fake Im real But my living situation is making things difficult for me to meet hang out swinger and hook up with new people when I want to be taken by multiple men. Very outgoing person in college studying computer science I came on here looking to meet cool laid back people who don't have hung ups. CAN'T READ MSGS.